“Imagine having to escape to freedom during this time, not knowing if you were going to get shot or bombed 24/7,” Thao-Berg said. In the tragic aftermath of war, as many as 40,000 Hmong soldiers were dead. Because Thao-Berg’s family had fought for the U.S., they were given priority for immigration.
But resettling in the frigid upper Midwest, far from Laos’s tropical heat and soaking monsoons, was not a smooth transition for Thao-Berg’s family or the larger Hmong community. As her parents and family struggled to adapt, she quickly learned English and served as their interpreter. Focusing on her studies, Thao-Berg was self-disciplined and focused.
“I didn’t have a typical American childhood. My values and perspective were different than most that were born here,” she recalled. “You always have that flight-and-fight urgency to work hard and survive. I think that’s the difference with the folks that were born here. There’s a lack of urgency to get things done fast.”
It is these qualities that drove her to excel academically, earning a BA in Business Management along with minors in Management Information Systems, and Marketing at Augsburg College. Later, they fueled her highly successful career as a Realtor®.
Working with a clientele that she estimates is at least 50% Hmong, she continues helping successive generations find homes. Tirelessly energetic, Thao-Berg is committed to building and celebrating the Hmong community. Her many activities include visiting suburban schools and educating young people about Hmong culture and history; sponsoring youth sports programs; and coordinating the annual fashion show during the Hmong New Year celebration at the River Center in St. Paul. Amid all this bustle, Thao-Berg is raising three children—all active in soccer and volleyball—plus, maintaining a home in Blaine. She even carves time to sit on the board of directors for Minnesota Realtors® (MNR), serve as chair for MNR’s Communications Committee, and a member of its Strategic Planning Committee.
“I’m thankful to be in a country that has no limits on becoming what you want,” Thao-Berg reflected, explaining that for too long the Hmong had no home of their own, and were outsiders in the southeast-Asian nations where they settled. “Now, I live in a place immersed with other ethnicities. That makes it easier to feel like you are a part of a community. Having leadership in areas that represents our diversity is good for our community, and makes us part of Minnesota, and the whole nation.”
And that, Thao-Berg concludes, is the kind of place where you can put down roots and create a home for generations to come.